How do you know if the person you are dating is… ‘the one’?

Updated: Feb 14, 2021

When you meet someone that makes your heartbeat like a rock n roll band and the romance continues to grow, there is always that point we find ourselves wondering – ‘is this person my ‘One?’ and at the same time you might also be asking yourself ‘How do I REALLY know?’.

This is an age-old question and so let us break it down and try to answer it…


To start with, you must understand that the ‘perfect’ person and the ‘perfect’ relationship do not exist (so try not to put such an unattainable expectation on life). When you get past what is commonly called ‘the honeymoon period’, for things to work it takes some hard work and even more if you want to continue to grow together side by side through the years.

Look at the King and the Queen of Heavy Metal, Ozzy, and Sharon Osbourne. The two met in 1979 and got married in 1982, they had a career and three children together and despite the trials and tribulations of life (Jail, Alcohol, Drugs, and all Ozzy’s famous craziness), they are still together!


This story makes me think that the only way to find ‘the One’ is to choose to be ‘the One’.

So, what make Sharon ‘the One’ for Ozzy?